Day 32 - Love Meets Sexual Needs

Today's Verse:

The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. – 1 Corinthians 7:3
Today's Message:

Like a lot of people… I've been waiting to get to this dare. Just the title of the Dare is enough to make you want to skip right to it. How difficult can it possibly be?

That all depends on whether you want to read what the dare is really saying, take the time to consider it's message, and REALLY take to heart what it's asking you to do.

It's not about what YOU want. It's about what your SPOUSE wants. That may not sound like eye opening, earth shattering, foundation shaking news to everyone… but it should be. You really have to consider the message on this dare.

And it's not just about grabbing your partner to doe-see-doe. It's about making sure your spouse enjoys square dancing. If they don't…then you best learn the boogaloo, or whatever dance it takes to trip their trigger. Just be careful you're not stepping on their toes on the spin arounds.

I'm looking forward to practicing it until I get it right! I may even repeat this dare several times just to be sure!
Today's Questions:

  • Do you consider your spouse's need when it comes to the physical part of your relationship?
Today's Dare:

If at all possible, try to initiate sex with your husband or wife today. Do this in a way that honors what your spouse has told you (or implied to you) about what they need from you sexually. Ask God to make this enjoyable for both of you as well as a path to greater intimacy.

  • Was this a satisfying experience for you?
    • Personal answer- skipped.
  • If it didn't turn out the way you'd hoped, what do you think is complicating matters?
    • More than I could hope
  • Have you committed this to prayer?
    • Oh yeah
  • If it was a true blessing for both of you, what can you learn from this for the future?
    • Personal answer… skipped
How beautiful and delightful you are, my love. (Song of Solomon 7:6) - -



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